Istri harus 'nurut sama saya, di rumah semua harus 'nurut dan hormat sama saya, semua kuasa ada di tangan saya, kalo ada yg berani 'ngelawan saya tindak tegas dan keras..
Kenapa di rumah 'hawa' bawa'an nya 'panas' terus ya... ?
Terjemahan bebas roh nubuat mengamarkan :
Anda, hai suami, mengharapkan terlalu banyak dari istri dan anak-anak Anda. Anda terlalu banyak mengecam.
Jika Anda mendorong temperamen yang ceria dan bahagia, berbicaralah dengan ramah dan lembut kepada mereka, Anda akan membawa sinar matahari ke dalam rumahmu, bukan awan, kesedihan, dan ketidakbahagiaan.
Anda berpikir terlalu banyak dari penilaian Anda; Anda mengambil posisi yang ekstrem, dan tidak bersedia menghargai penilaian istri Anda dalam keluarga. Anda tidak mendorong menghormati istri Anda sendiri atau mendidik anak-anak Anda untuk menghormati penilaiannya.
Anda belum membuatnya sama dengan Anda, tetapi lebih suka mengambil kendali dan mengendalikan dengan cengkeraman kuat.
Anda tidak memiliki sikap yang lembut dan simpatik. Ciri-ciri karakter yang perlu Anda kembangkan jika menginginkan berkat Allah dalam keluarga Anda.
Tulisan aslinya :
You expect too much of your wife and children. You censure too much. If you would encourage a cheerful, happy temper yourself and speak kindly and tenderly to them, you would bring sunlight into your dwelling instead of clouds, sorrow, and unhappiness. You think too much of your opinion; you have taken extreme positions, and have not been willing that your wife’s judgment should have the weight it should in your family. You have not encouraged respect for your wife yourself nor educated your children to respect her judgment. You have not made her your equal, but have rather taken the reins of government and control into your own hands and held them with a firm grasp. You have not an affectionate, sympathetic disposition. These traits of character you need to cultivate if you want to be an overcomer and if you want the blessing of God in your family. {AH 227.3}
Kenapa di rumah 'hawa' bawa'an nya 'panas' terus ya... ?
Terjemahan bebas roh nubuat mengamarkan :
Anda, hai suami, mengharapkan terlalu banyak dari istri dan anak-anak Anda. Anda terlalu banyak mengecam.
Jika Anda mendorong temperamen yang ceria dan bahagia, berbicaralah dengan ramah dan lembut kepada mereka, Anda akan membawa sinar matahari ke dalam rumahmu, bukan awan, kesedihan, dan ketidakbahagiaan.
Anda berpikir terlalu banyak dari penilaian Anda; Anda mengambil posisi yang ekstrem, dan tidak bersedia menghargai penilaian istri Anda dalam keluarga. Anda tidak mendorong menghormati istri Anda sendiri atau mendidik anak-anak Anda untuk menghormati penilaiannya.
Anda belum membuatnya sama dengan Anda, tetapi lebih suka mengambil kendali dan mengendalikan dengan cengkeraman kuat.
Anda tidak memiliki sikap yang lembut dan simpatik. Ciri-ciri karakter yang perlu Anda kembangkan jika menginginkan berkat Allah dalam keluarga Anda.
Tulisan aslinya :
You expect too much of your wife and children. You censure too much. If you would encourage a cheerful, happy temper yourself and speak kindly and tenderly to them, you would bring sunlight into your dwelling instead of clouds, sorrow, and unhappiness. You think too much of your opinion; you have taken extreme positions, and have not been willing that your wife’s judgment should have the weight it should in your family. You have not encouraged respect for your wife yourself nor educated your children to respect her judgment. You have not made her your equal, but have rather taken the reins of government and control into your own hands and held them with a firm grasp. You have not an affectionate, sympathetic disposition. These traits of character you need to cultivate if you want to be an overcomer and if you want the blessing of God in your family. {AH 227.3}
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